Thursday, August 11, 2011

I Wanna Be The Cat Lady, Minus The Cats


My ticket to Australia has been bought, my arrival date in the 27th of December, my departure will be the 11th of January. I was so excited the minute I booked it, so ready to board my plane. The days seem so long now, I'll be leaving in 4 months, and my God that's so far away! So much can happen in 4 months, and even though James was so excited that I finally booked my ticket, I still feel unsatisfied. I'll be honest, lately I've felt so disconnected from him, we haven't Skyped in 2 weeks. I know that he's busy, he has a life, just moved into a new place, but I need some TLC. I've never considered myself a needy a person, but right now, as much as I hate to admit it, I'm feeling extremely needy. I tell myself I rather be alone than not be with James, that our love story is a true one. I can tell myself this till I'm blue in the face, but truth be told I may just be fooling myself.

My Aussie vacation, may just end up being well...just a vacation. Perhaps it'll be all for the best, I'll still get a fun filled trip, I'll still get to enjoy James' company and meet his family. I just have the feeling that when I leave, that will be it, just an end to another love chapter in the Datist's life. I hate being a pessimist, I once was a HUGE optimist, thinking that the whole bowl was half full, forget the glass. After my failure of a road trip I don't think I have anything to show for it except my beloved blog.

I think I would like to be the cat lady, minus the cats. Why does it have to be cats anyways? Why isn't there a "dog lady?" Hmm..maybe "the dog lady" doesn't sound as creepy. In any case I'm ready to stay single, maybe have a love affair here and there, but nothing permanent. After being single for so long I don't really see myself sticking with one person. I think I've possibly morphed into a butterfly, I seem to like going from flower to flower. This road trip has become a lonely one, and I don't see an ending anytime soon.

"Oh, sweet sorrow, the time you borrow, will you be here when I wake up tomorrow?"
~Katherine Wolf

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